Thanks for stopping by, Melissa. It’s always a pleasure to hear from you!

Yeah, you really do seem confident…

It is strange that others view us differently then we view ourselves! As for marketing – and confidence – I’m really working on myself in those areas this year. I’m noticing I’m getting more results than before. Not all of the responses come with a “yes” but they are at least responding and have positive things to say. We writers know how much it means for an editor to respond at all, much less take the time to share something positive. We’re getting there, Rebecca, one word at a time.

*smiles*
Michele

Marketing is especially daunting for freelancers. We’ve been raised to be ‘modest’ so talking in a positive light about ourselves and promoting what it is we do feels unnatural. One of the things I’ve found helps me is to focus on how I can help other people. When you come from a very giving nature others are drawn to that and it becomes easier to say, “Oh, you’re getting married? CONGRATULATIONS! Have you hired the designer for your invitations because, you know, I do that!”

@ Kit: Thank you, Kit. I guess I need that reminder from time to time. It is easy to feel a little lost on the web so it feels wonderful to know I’m inspiring others.

@ Jakill: *grins* Glad the mask of bravado works. *winks* The truth is, I try to stay positive and most of what I write here I can write with confidence. I know my stuff after all. lol The trick is fighting down those inner demons.

I can relate to your craving for variety. I’ve noticed those who can carve themselves into a niche often have the potential for higher earnings but there are so many interesting topics that I can’t imagine settling for very long in any single one.

@ Mik: It’s great to meet you, Mik. Lyndi’s got a fantastic blog and it’s such an honor to have been reviewed by her. Thank you for the luck and I wish you all the best in your own quest.

@ Millard: Yay, another Lyndi fan! Welcome Millard. It is reassuring to know that I’m not the only one who struggles against fear. Writing really does help but having the support of others is magical. Thank you for your support.

*smiles and hugs*
Michele

Good luck in your quest to be a self-sufficient writer. Looks like you have the talent for it.

I shall subscribe.

Life is almost always uncertain for freelancers. You are at the mercy of everything that is happening in your clients’ lives that could make them stop using you. That’s why it’s important not to have all your eggs in one basket.

But you have to get the balance right. My own downfall demon is being resistant to stay in any niches. I just crave variety.

Fear and uncertainty are remarkable kick-up-the-bums… But please remember that you are an inspiration to many.

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