How to Stay Sane While Multitasking—And Coping With MJSS
Ever feel like pulling your hair out like that gal in the photo? I can totally relate!
As freelancers, we suffer from MJSS “Multi-Job Stress Syndrome” – that’s right, our number one job is to multitask. We don’t have the option of clocking in at 9 a.m. and leaving our work in an office as we shut the light off, letting it sit on our desk as we close the door behind us and go home at 5 p.m. I’m not saying those who work 9-5 have an easy life – their lives are stressful and they have to go home to families, laundry, dishes, and the chaos this world brings as well.
Rewind!
Wait. I have to correct myself. There are freelancers who do keep 9-5 hours but from what I’ve experienced and witnessed, most of us are right the opposite. And, besides, most freelancers’ offices are on-site, in their homes or at best, in a guest cottage that’s on their property. ß Lucky them!
What I’m saying is that we literally live our jobs 24/7: We always have e-mail, we always have assignments, we always have ideas sitting in files, and we’re always juggling different projects and activities. Sometimes we can feel like we’re losing our sanity as it piles up and seems overwhelming—like the dirty dishes and laundry that’s always building and calling, that we hate to pull ourselves away from our work to tend to. But it never goes away. It only increases and if we don’t wade through it each day, continually, it becomes too much to fathom sorting through.
That’s what I’m talking about. Freelance work is a never-ending task. As long as we’re freelancers, we’re always going to be pulled a million different directions and, honestly, it can wear us down, affect our immune systems and, obviously, test our sanity until we’re a little more than frazzled and feel like pulling our hair out some days.
Jobs of a Freelancer
If you aren’t familiar with what freelancers face day in and day out, here’s a run-down:
- All Clerical (answering the phone, creating and maintaining a filing system, all paperwork, etc.)
- Accounting
- Marketing
- Web tech/learning technical areas (if we opt to save $$$ by building/maintaining websites/blogs ourselves, instead of outsourcing)
- Querying
- Researching
- Answering emails
- Designing/printing business cards
- Designing/printing brochures or fliers
- Setting up at festivals or events
- Organizing
- Scheduling
- And much more….
Reality of a Freelancer
Unless you can find it in your budget to hire a Virtual Assistant or in-house Assistant, you’re the proud owner of all of above jobs. Crazy, isn’t it. Oh, and I forgot to mention that on top of all those duties, you get to write (or design) or whatever it is you’re doing as a freelancer. Fun, huh?
Can you see how madness can ensue and chaos can overtake your very sanity?
Now that we’ve diagnosed our illness, we’ll discuss — and learn to recognize — the symptoms of MJSS and how to maintain our sanity and overall health as we trudge through the madness freelancing brings to our lives. I’ll be sharing natural, Zen ways to find peace amidst the freelance chaos!
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What do you think? Are you losing your sanity while trying to multitask? Do you breeze right through multitasking without even losing your breath? Is it easy for you/hard for you? Did I leave anything out? Do you have any chaotic memories to share? Do tell!
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Running a freelancing business from home is HARD! I rely heavily on my husband and some weeks, he only adds to the multitasking mayhem!
Great article!
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Yes, it gets pretty crazy–thank goodness for freelance friends who can relate and cheer us on!
Hugs,
Michele
Bravo, Michele! Factor in the kids and pets some of us have to tend to on top of it all, and it makes for a lovely stew of stress.
Thank goodness for the internet, though, because we can vent to people who can relate to us. (I live in a small town, so when I tell local people, “I’m a freelance writer” (or blogger, or whatever term I feel like using at the time), I’m usually answered with, “Ooooh, must be nice… all that free time…!”
Oy.
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Aw! Thanks, Cyn!
Yes, distractions are craziness for sure!
Yeah, free time…. Yeah… Ha!
If only they knew, eh?!
*smiles*
Michele
*raises hand* Yep, I admit to having a pretty nasty case of MJSS from time to time.
There are just so many things that ‘need’ to get done. I’ve learned that sometimes you just have to be flexible and in command enough to say, “No, that can wait.”
I’ve also found that I ‘enjoy’ the chaos. It’s kind of an addiction isn’t it? I mean although we do have many different tasks and jobs we need to get done we could schedule specific time to focus on each one individually. But it ‘feels good’ to be doing so much, to feel busy and productive. Maybe that’s just me because I know how bad I feel when I’m not being busy and productive, when guilt replaces pride. Sometimes, of course, I do wonder if I should get off the drug of Multitasking and try a more structured, linear way of doing things.
I’m looking forward to reading more about staying sane while multitasking. I bet you (or perhaps we collectively) could write a whole series of posts about tips, tools, and techniques for keeping it all together.
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Hi, Rebecca!
Oh, you make an awesome point: “I’ve also found that I ‘enjoy’ the chaos. It’s kind of an addiction isn’t it? I mean although we do have many different tasks and jobs we need to get done we could schedule specific time to focus on each one individually. But it ‘feels good’ to be doing so much, to feel busy and productive.”
So true!!!
I absolutely agree that the chaos is addictive and I love it.
There are more posts coming from me on this topic, but I’d LOVE to hear from you and the other WRA contributors and learn from the different perspectives and tips you’d each bring to the (freelance) table.
*smiles*
Michele
Michele,
Yikes, after looking at that list I think I’ll consider doing something different.
Heading over to cabanaboyjobs-dot-com right now…
George
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LOL – George, you’re so funny!
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