Writer’s Round-About

The early career of a freelance writer can sometimes feel like whirling in circles on a carousel. Here, fantasy novelist and freelance writer Rebecca Laffar-Smith, discusses writing and the writer’s life from inspiration to publication.

Rebecca Laffar-Smith

Freelance Writer
Award Winning Poet
Editor, Critic, Reviewer
and Fantasy Novelist.

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Networking, Friendship, and Colleagues

Do you have a powerful network of friends and colleagues who inspire you to keep trying, to push harder, to accomplish all you can be? In the past two days I’ve discovered how motivating and empowering, how VITAL a collection of friends who’ve been there, who truly know how you feel, can be for a writer.

Writers are a unique body of people. We think differently than other people. Our minds are often split with ideas and various forces pulling us in multiple directions. We tend to feel more deeply, to see with multiple perspectives, to reach out and need each other. There is something about being a writer that sets us apart from non-writers. Something that’s hard to describe but it is tangible when you’re there, in the moment, plugged in, linked!

Some of you have noticed my absence of late. You might contribute it to my trip and in a way that was a pivotal point. It spun my compass and I began to truly evaluate what I want from life. I still whirl in uncertainty, with choices that seem far and wide, but one thing that I’ve come to realize in the past two days, thanks to networking with online friends and colleagues in this writing and freelancing business is I want to be HERE, I WANT to continue to write for this blog, I want to build and truly cherish the friendships I’ve made already in this business and I want to write, I want to get past the fear, the pain, the pressure, the resistance that blocks my writing.

In a way it shows that nothing has changed. This dream, this desire has been strong, constant, all my life. Thanks to the motivation of my network, the opportunity to chat, express ideas, share confidence and be rewarded with a caring and nurturing relationship amongst fellow writers we can come back to the page, we can turn to the next challenge, we can push forward, onward, upward.

Ultimately, it is our support systems that push us toward the things we truly want. Who is in your support network? Who cherishes your desires simply because they’re yours? Do you have friends who drag you down? Do you have a quiet relief of people who know exactly what you need to hear and when to hear it?

How important is your network of friends and colleagues to you and your future success? How have they impacted your life to where you are today?



Credits For EntreCard Users

I really enjoy the network of writers and bloggers I’ve discovered thanks to this wonderful little gadget, EntreCard. For the past few months I’ve dropped and returned drops regularly, especially to my favorite blogs, and have built up a little nest egg of credits. I’d love to share these excess EntreCredits with the EntreCard readers here at Writer’s Round-About.
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Giving Back to Your Blogging Community

Life can become crazy and noisy for us writers most of the time. Instead of hearing those sweet whispers clearly, we get static fuzziness that often leaves us feeling tired, uninspired, and discouraged about our future with words. Add to those hectic times the nagging need to keep up with our own blogs and we […]


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